My feelings are too big for my body right now. A few months ago, I felt like a completely different person. I was so proud of myself for finally paying off every single dollar of my credit card debt. I felt like a girl who had her life together: financially secure, independent, achieving her goals. But after only a couple of days of privately gloating over my ability to finally successfully adult, a deputy sheriff showed up at my door and served me with custody paperwork and a reason to drop $4k on a family law attorney. After all these years, guess who decided to show up. There it is.…