“If he’s dumb enough to walk away, be smart enough to let him go….”  —person smarter than me who came up with that quote Is there anything worse than the “stuff swap” after a breakup?  You know, the moment when the guy comes back to pick up all of the t-shirts and sunglasses and DVDs that he left at your house, and he drops off the earrings and hairspray and awesome cowgirl boots (that you forgot you bought) that you ditched at his.  It’s so incredibly awkward and awful.  You’re in the room with someone that you once could not get close enough to, who you could not wait to hug…